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How do you tackle emotional symptoms after menopause?

Need an Emotional Health Check?

How do you tackle emotional symptoms after menopause?

Stop this emotional rollercoaster… I want to get off!

At times, tackling the emotional symptoms of menopause can feel like a full-time job. You’re up, you’re down, you’re weepy one minute and angry the next – it’s like the world’s worst PMS and there seems to be no off switch.

Discussions about menopause have often got caught up on physical symptoms. This is understandable – hot flushes and weight gain are no fun – but it’s important not to overlook the emotional and mental impact, and to seek professional help if appropriate. Especially as these are deferring over into your Post Menopausal years.

During menopause and perimenopause, your body undergoes some big physical changes, but don’t underestimate the emotional and mental impact of this intense period of transition. At times it can feel like being on an emotional rollercoaster (one with no option to leave the ride!) and mental symptoms are just as important to get to grips with as night sweats and migraines.

Like all menopause symptoms, emotional and mental symptoms vary from woman to woman. Some have very mild shifts in mood or experience no symptoms at all while others face irritability, intense mood swings, anxiety, exhaustion, depression, or difficulty focusing. There is no right or wrong way to feel during menopause, but it is important to give yourself space to reflect on your emotions and to ask for help when you need it.

Let’s  look at the impact of menopause on our mental and emotional health and explore some of the lifestyle changes that can help you to find your balance when you’re feeling overwhelmed.

How does menopause impact our mental and emotional health?

Fluctuating oestrogen and progesterone levels can cause women to feel like they are in a constant state of PMT, and this can trigger sudden changes in mood and increased irritability. Your shifting hormones can also impact brain chemistry making women more prone to anxiety and depression. In addition, some women may experience a sense of loss or grief associated with the end of their fertile years and the uncertainty of aging.

These are just some of the emotional and mental symptoms women may experience throughout their entire menopause and well into their late post menopause years.

  • Irritability
  • Sadness
  • Brain Fog
  • Lack of Motivation
  • Mood Changes
  • Fatigue
  • Frustration
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Grief

It’s important to seek advice from your GP if you are experiencing prolonged or intense emotional symptoms or low mood. Menopause puts women at increased risk of depression and anxiety which may need professional treatment and support.

Is it possible to have an emotionally healthy life after menopause?

Yes. Although nearly every woman will experience some level of emotional flux, I believe that building a healthy lifestyle and strong self-care routine, and its never too late to create these, can help to smooth the extended transition period and empower you to live well.

Here are my top tips for treating emotional symptoms during menopause:

  • Eat Well

    When you’re eating lots of processed food, refined sugars, and stimulants, like caffeine or alcohol, your body is constantly experiencing synthetic bursts of energy followed by deep troughs that can leave you feeling exhausted and emotionally all over the place. Cleaning up your diet and choosing a diet of fresh whole foods most of the time, lean proteins, wholegrains, healthy fats, and colourful fruits and veg – can help to stabilise your mood and leave you better prepared to navigate the emotional and physical symptoms you are experiencing.

  • Move More

    Exercise has long been known to be a natural mood booster and it’s been shown to have a significant impact on a range of menopause symptoms, including emotional flux. When we exercise our body is flooded with endorphins – known as the happy hormones – which reduce pain and trigger positive feelings. Regular movement is key to a healthy post menopause and even getting out for a short walk every day can have a positive impact, particularly if you’re heading out into nature – another proven mood booster.

  • Practice Self Care

    I speak to so many women who tell me they don’t have time for self-care, but time doing the things that are important to you is vital for emotional health and balance. Take a long, hard look at your to-do list and cut back on those non-essential tasks that are draining your time and your joy. Whether it’s making time to spend on a hobby you love, dedicating one night a month to catching up with a much-loved group of friends, or just setting aside an hour a day for dedicated R & R, self-care is as important to your emotional health as diet is to your physical wellbeing.

  • Get Mindful

    Mindfulness is an incredibly useful tool at any time, but during menopause, it can help you to find mental space and smooth out fluctuating emotions. There is no special trick to it, mindfulness simply means sitting quietly, paying attention to your thoughts and breathing, and focusing your attention on being present in that moment. You can do it anywhere and it’s a really useful tool for tackling emotional flare-ups, including sudden feelings of tension or worry.

  • Sleep Better

    I know sleep can be a constant battle throughout perimenopause and menopause, and then can develop even further as you age, but good sleep really can boost your emotional wellbeing and help to clear frustrating brain fog. You can improve your sleep routine by practicing good sleep hygiene – clearing your sleep space of distractions and screens – and enjoying a 60-minute digital-free relaxation period before bed. A warm bath, good book, and gentle stretching routine can all help you to get better shut-eye.

Your emotional health matters just as much as your physical health during menopause and you don’t have to go it alone. Talk to your GP, to friends, and to family about how you’re feeling, and remember that menopause should never be something you suffer through.

Di x

Get Midlife Fabulous
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